Going from the state of unconscious incompetence to effortless competence requires a set of 3 traits that makes the transition possible.
The absence of any one of those three means that you are trying to coach the uncoachable. This results in losing a lot of time, and resentment.
So the best way to avoid the situation is to ensure that the person you chose to coach is coachable in the first place –
The three traits look for are :
1. Honest and Humble
2. Persistent + Hardworking
3. Openness to learning